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Just irony or somet else?
- you'r taken but more guys pay u attention!?
And FYI ppl, I am not a major flirt (I'm open & honest & like to joke), perhaps more relaxed around the opp' sex (coz I'm not 'looking'), but just otherwise...it seems weirdly ironic that a couple of guys have recently been telling me how lucky my bf is for having me!...and paying me general compliments on my personality...and the occassional catch up phone calls/invite to meet for chat n drinks (but we'r honestly gd friends, I wouldn't meet anyone if I thought it was to jeprodise my relationship). Whats doubly ironic though, is that it happens especially when I'm doubting whether my bf takes me for granted.
Does anyone believe its a sign? or am I sending out some psychic vibe that only 'interested' guys I know can pick up?? lol ?? or is it just utter irony.
It is not irony, it is human nature. People who are not in relationships generally feel unwanted, and as a result of this feeling their self esteem is low. As a result of low self esteem they project through body language a poor self image and lack of confidence which is generally not attractive to other people.
What you are feeling is the flip side of this formula. You are in a relationship so you feel wanted. This boosts your self esteem and makes you project more self confidence which makes you more attractive to other people.
Years ago, my brother through trial and error learned to crack this rosetta stone of human behavior. He learned the signs of low self esteem and poor confidence projected by women were actually a useful dating strategy to recognize. It meant he had less competition from other men, and that the women were on the verge of desperation for any male attention they could get. This let him manipulate multiple relationships at a time by always keeping a string of desperate women on the hook, and pushing off any woman that got too much self esteem after dating him.
As a public service I am warning you women about predatory guys like my brother who will take advantage of you due to your low self esteem issues. So you feeling like your boyfriend is taking you for granted might just be projecting that you have a bit of low self esteem, and that you are still worth something because he hasn't dumped you yet. This is a powerful mix for predatory guys who will find you both attractive because you're with someone, and vulnerable because your esteem is not at its height.
p.s. I've been observing human nature for 42 years and have some very good working hypotheses on what drives and motivates people.
I hope this helps.
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Do u believe its just irony or somet else?
- you'r taken but more guys pay u attention!?
And FYI ppl, I am not a major flirt (I'm open & honest & like to joke), perhaps more relaxed around the opp' sex (coz I'm not 'looking'), but just otherwise...it seems weirdly ironic that a couple of guys have recently been telling me how lucky my bf is for having me!...and paying me general compliments on my personality...and the occassional catch up phone calls/invite to meet for chat n drinks (but we'r honestly gd friends, I wouldn't meet anyone if I thought it was to jeprodise my relationship). Whats doubly ironic though, is that it happens especially when I'm doubting whether my bf takes me for granted.
Does anyone believe its a sign? or am I sending out some psychic vibe that only 'interested' guys I know can pick up?? lol ?? or is it just utter irony.
Quite often single people tend to miss the forest for the trees...
Say you're at a social gathering and you're available... You will probably notice someone, or a few people, you're be interested and the majority of your focus will be on them and missing all the guys who've noticed you and are being 'nice'...
This is the amount attention you always get, you've just stopped deciding which guys you'd prefer it from... You're going to get it from you BF anyway...
I know one thing for certain: you don't understand irony... American? I blame Alanis Morrisette...
